Saccharine Irony

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Searching for a Wedding Theme? Go Bali! October 27, 2009

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Last week, the family was invited to attend a Bali themed wedding party at the Country Village Hotel. The simple wedding ceremony was held at a secluded chapel, in the hilly areas of the city. While the ceremony was simply routine, the after wedding party was anything but.

ASIAN LANTERNS

beuatiful asian lanterns

Arriving early at the reception, we were able to appreciate the well-planned Balinese setting.  There were Asian lanterns hanging from the draped ceilings, and the lighting was subdued enough to bring out a romantic yet festive atmosphere. Happy, pulsating Balinese drum beats greeted us as we arrived at the venue, so it was difficult to feign excitement. I almost wanted to hop and grind in my orange summer dress! LOL.

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drapes and summer hats

As you can see there were also lighted palm trees, which were strategically scattered all throughout the venue. To add a bit of privacy to the outdoor setting, drapes were hung, but these were also ingeniously tied with native summer hats for that authentic and exotic beach feel.

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Me in my Bali summer dress

That’s me, taking a pose beside the cupcake tower and the dainty fondant wedding cake. I donned an orange and fuchsia number, with a cinched waist. The hunt for the perfect summer dress began since the time I received the invitation.  Of course, any occasion presents the perfect excuse to add another dress to my wardrobe, so I was more than happy to begin my search. The search ended when I found this pink-strapped orange dress at Mags.

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roses, mums, lilies

Okay, roses are not exactly too-Balinese, but what wedding is complete without roses? It’s a good thing that Malaysian mums, ferns, and some orchids and lilies were added into the flower arrangements, so as to create a more eclectic, less formal feel. The roses came in yellows, peaches, and whites, while the mums were either bright pink, white, or orange yellow.

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roses and candlelight

And I should tell you how I adored the table settings. Each table had more than three candles, an exquisitely arranged floral bouquet, rounded stones, and smaller pebbles that remind you of beaches and glorious sunsets. The tables were just the right size, so they were both cozy and intimate, seating only about six to seven people each.

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the view by the poolside

The venue was right by the pool moreover, and with the sound of the Balinese drums and the pull of the exotic ambiance, it was easy to forget that we were partying in a small hotel within the city of Cagayan de Oro.

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cupcakes!

Finally, I should say something about the desserts. I think every wedding should have delectable, mouth-watering desserts. Well, these sweet treats are nothing fancy, just a few chocolate and coffee cupcakes with butter icing, cheese squares, Chantilly bars and tarts, but they were served profusely and were delightful to the taste buds.

The wedding was one of the most fun celebrations I’ve been in; there were none of the strict formality and stiffness prevalent in many traditional weddings, and everybody came to have a good time. The emcee captured everyone’s attention with her crisp voice and effortless segues. The girls came in their cute summer dresses while the guys were dressed down to their short-sleeved polos, light-colored slacks, and loafers or sneaks.

Nonetheless, there was elegance to be seen everywhere – from the lights to the flowers and from the dainty desserts to the first-class photography. It was a happy affair, which is what every wedding after-party should be.

To Jojo and Charise, may you stay in love, for life! :)

 

Happy Fiesta! August 28, 2009

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Today is the feast day of St. Augustine and I would just like to share one of my favorite quotes from him:

Love is the beauty of the soul.

Happy Fiesta!

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Love by Bob Marley August 20, 2009

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got this Bob Marley quote/song from Angela :)

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You may not be her first, her last, or her only. She loved before, she may love again. But if she loves you now, what else matters?

She’s not perfect, you aren’t either, the two of you may never be perfect together but if she can make you laugh, cause you to think twice, admit to being human & making mistakes, hold onto her and give her the most you can.

She may not be thinking about you every second of the day, but she will give you a part of her that she knows you can break; her heart.

So don’t hurt her, don’t change her, don’t analyze, and don’t expect more than she can give. Smile when she makes you happy, let her know when she makes you mad, and miss her when she’s not there.

 

The Littlest Heart August 18, 2009

Filed under: Love, confessions — Aimee @ 3:26 am
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I don’t miss him, I miss the person I thought he was.

 

What a day! August 12, 2009

Filed under: Events, Love — Aimee @ 12:31 pm
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Today is one tough day, running from one hospital to another, helping my cousin deal with some very tragic, tragic business. I never thought I’d spend almost an hour outside of a hospital morgue, talking to my lawyer best friend, asking for some valuable legal advice. It didn’t help that my cousin’s fiancee is still in a hospital bed, recuperating from the accident, while the wedding is a mere three days away! I don’t want to dish out too many details here but suffice it to say that this week is one of the saddest and most intense.

I still believe in happy endings, though. In my hearts of hearts, I know my cousin and his fiancee will have the wedding and the marriage they have always wished for. Strong heart! God bless you both. Much love. :-*

 

Passion for Photography August 10, 2009

Filed under: Events, Love — Aimee @ 1:38 am
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My schedule has so been full lately, so  again, this blog entry is written in absolute haste. However I just needed to post these photos, which I took for the pre-nuptial photoshoot of my lovely  cousin. No, I did not buy a DSLR yet, I merely used my trusty Canon IXUS for this photo shoot.

I made a promise to myself that prior to treating myself to a professional photographer’s camera I will have already experimented on my photography skills using my handy cam. Plus, this CANON IXUS had been quite expensive when my sister and I bought it, so I think it’s features should be put to good use, before buying a pricier and more sophisticated model. It’s a Canon afterall, and with the exception of Nikon, I think no camera will ever come close. So here are a few photos, shot in Eco and Midway Beach.

so this is love

so this is love

not going anywhere...

not going anywhere...

somewhere I have never travelled

somewhere I have never travelled

how do I love thee? let me count the ways...

how do I love thee? let me count the ways...

will you say yes?

will you say yes?

the sunset

the sunset

 

Nobody’s Princess February 18, 2009

Filed under: Love, confessions, that funny love thang — Aimee @ 8:51 am
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Girl: Am I still your princess?

Silence…

Boy: Please don’t ask me that.

Girl: Why?

Silence…

Boy: I don’t want to answer. I don’t know.

Silence…

Girl: You only have to answer yes or no. There is no such thing as not knowing.

Silence…

Girl: Goodbye, then.

 

Day of Hearts February 14, 2009

Filed under: Events, Love — Aimee @ 4:15 am
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“Once in a while, right in the middle of an ordinary life, love gives us a fairytale”.

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After the Heavy Rains February 11, 2009

Filed under: Events, Love, Pinoy Eccentricities, Weather — Aimee @ 2:56 am
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imageshouse1For the past weeks, the house has been under renovations. Since the day of the flash floods about a month ago, the entire family has been planning on renovating the property. We decided finally to repaint, re-tile, and redecorate the house. It was out of necessity yes, but somehow, we did not want anything to remind us of the horrible ordeal, which had us sleeping in a hotel the first night, as the beds and pillows were all soaked.

Hopefully, by the time the renovations are done, we’ll add a few decorative touches here and there, so nothing of the past nightmare will ever haunt us again. Well, I really hope so. Each time the rain persists for hours, I now find it hard to sleep, silently cursing the clogged drainage systems, deforestation and quarrying activities, and the oh-so-smug city officials who think placing Cagayan de Oro under a state of calamity is going to be enough. Um, excuse me, but there are grave issues here, and we can’t afford to have another deluge drown this city before you all start taking action. Thankfully for us, no major appliance or piece of furniture was damaged. My casualties included a few old handbags, some newly bought fashion magazines, DVD player, a love letter, USB, and other trinkets.

So. I think the repainting will begin this week, and I’m thinking of choosing a shade less predictable than white. Taupe, maybe? Or corn yellow, perhaps?

One thing is for certain, though, I want the house to look sunshiny and bright, happy and resilient- all the things that a home should be, even after the heavy rains.

 

A Blushing Affair to Remember February 8, 2009

Filed under: Events, Love, that funny love thang — Aimee @ 2:46 pm
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Here are a few snaps of Ella and Bryan’s wedding last February 7, a blissful Saturday. To the newlyweds, may you pepper this world with lots of children, and may all your days be glazed with honeyed love. Cheers!

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kisses to the ravishing bride

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yes, i think we look polished here, hehe :)

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the hosts: Jet & Ai

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with my date

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women just can’t say no to pink!